Asking the Right Questions
You can find the man or woman of your dreams with Online Dating. Since it started, Online Dating has brought people together who would never have met any other way. You can make your Online Dating experiences better by starting them right.
When you begin an online friendship that you are hoping in your heart will turn into a romantic relationship, there are some questions you should ask right away. The answers you get can tell you whether to proceed with the relationship or head for the nearest exit.
The Most Important Questions Answered
First you need to ask in as diplomatic way as possible, "What is the biggest mistake that people make when dating online for the first time?"
The answer you get can reveal a lot about the person. Like their attitudes on the opposite sex and what kind of issues are vitally important to them in their other relationships.
The next question that you need an answer to is, "What qualities in a guy/girl do you think are important for a successful relationship?"
If the person tries to pass this off as a joke or doesn't have an answer, it probably means they really haven't thought about it and are not looking for a serious relationship. In this case, you will do well run the other direction !
And last but certainly not least, you should find out what happened to end the person's last relationship. If they tell you it was all the other person's fault or take all of the responsibility for the breakup themselves, that is not a good sign. The answer you really want is that they just grew part or mutually consented to the break-up.
Remember that Online Dating is more of a process than instant results, even though the Internet is often associated with convenience and speed. Also remember that the object of emails, chats and phone calls are to get to know the other person.
You want to know what kind of person he or she is before you actually meet them in person. So ask questions and answer questions the best you can.
Important! In as simple as this secret may sound, MOST singles DON'T really think much about these important questions that they themselves and their partners do not often answer or even reflect on. It's like spelling otherwise than Online Dating success!