Rule 5: Lead in the relationship - Always be a man - IE Dad - say things like "you do what you wanna do"
Girls like a guy who will lead in the relationship. I don't mean bossy, I mean lead. It's a manly thing to do. When a woman asks what you want to do, don't reply back, "I don't what you want to do", take the bull by the horns and make a decision. I know it's a bit of a pain to be the one who does this all the time, but it really works.
I also added a part about my dad in this rule. He is one of those old fashioned type of guy who always leads and makes executive decisions. He isn't wishy washy.
When women throw things at you that you do not expect, never over react. If a girl says she's going out with male friends, or seeing an ex boyfriend, don't go ballistic. This is the quickest way to push her away. Just say things like, "you do what you want do", "it's your life, I'm not your father, have fun". Saying things like this make you sound confident in yourself and don't really care what she does. Begging her not to go and doing all sorts of crazy things guys do will push her away for good.
Rule 6: Live an active and full life - you come first - plenty of fish in the sea - Always keep busy
Most of you are probably thinking how I am going to remember all these things, and you're not suppose to really. Use them all, or use just a few, refer to them often and they will sink in over time. But if you only remember one dating rule, this is it. Always keep busy! Never make too much time for a girl when you first start dating. All the other rules will fall into place if you just follow this one.
When you're sitting at home with nothing to do, you will be tempted to want to ring any girl you're dating too much and you will become too available. If she's says lets make plans for Tuesday, say no you're busy, how about Wednesday.
Get a hobby, play a sport, go out more with your friends and if you don't have any friends, make some ! Keep your mind busy and everything else will fall into place because you will be too busy with your life to care what she is doing. She will be just a nice little extra in your life, not your whole life!
Keep busy guys!
Rule 7: Don't rush the dating process - build the mystery - forcing repels attraction
Again, this goes with keeping busy. Never see a girl more then twice a week for at least the first 10 to 20 dates. Seriously. I know you will want to spend all your time with someone if you think she's the one, but, you need to build the attraction, not force it. This way is best for both of you. I feel most guys will settle for a girl because she wants a relationship, even though she might not be the girl for him.
Take your time, have fun, date multiple women, its ok.
Rule 8: Let things go, the past is the past - but always tell it as it is - no hang ups!
Every one has a past, and if I've made any mistake too much, it's this one. You have to accept people for who they are, if you really like someone, leave the past where it belongs, in the past. We all have baggage. Of course, there are limits. Why do I say this? This is because what she does before she met you, it's not fair of you to hold it against her.